http://www.pearldrummersforum.com/showt ... p?t=221279
A click on the link will take you right to his thread topic post. A good read for both drummers and non drummers.
His point is to consider dynamics (volume) on each of the drums or cymbals. Sometimes just backing off on an open hi hat volume while still pounding a solid snare drum back beat will make the band think you aren't playing as loud.
He also considers what drums and what tunings counteract the instruments (which might be perceived as the drummer being loud) as opposed to drums and tunings that enhance the instruments.
Check out the link whether you are a drummer of if you play in a band with a drummer. The guy makes some good points. You don't have to read the whole thread, but it covers a bit more if you have time.
I always said I have dynamics - loud...and louder.

Drummers - What techniques do you use to control dynamics ?
Anyone else - What do you think of a drummers dynamics and it's importance to a live show ?
Discuss...